Monday, June 24, 2013

Brave Girl!

Hayden was assigned to give a prayer in junior primary.  She has given the opening prayer and a talk this past year so she knew what to do this time.  They asked that a parent come at 11 am to help her with the closing prayer and both Paul and I spaced it!  The moment I saw her after church I realized I had forgotten and went to the leaders in primary to apologize.  They were so excited to tell me about Hayden.  She just got right up and said the prayer all by herself!  She blessed a new boy in her class, her mom and dad, and grandmas and grandpas and then started to bless everyone else in primary that she knows!  The Primary President helped her wrap things up and she was done.  I can't believe she got up and did it on her own.  I would have been crying for my mom at that age and she just got up and did it.

Then in her primary class she told them all a very intricate story tying in the Noah's Ark lesson but adding mermaids and crocodiles to the mix.  Her teacher has shocked at how well she told a story.

I'm so glad Hayden is turning into an outgoing, social little girl.  I was always more shy and it just makes life harder!  Just another way in which she takes after her Dad!

Monday, June 17, 2013

Happy Father's Day

Hayden and I started a new tradition this year.  I found a father's day questionnaire online and had her answer a number of questions.  I then got a binder and told Paul we'd add one each year.  It was so funny to listen to her answers.  Like,
"My dad likes to eat_______" her response "food," of course
And "My dad likes to wear_______clothes", right again
One last cute one, "If you could give your dad anything it would be a ________ kiss"

We went to our friends the Heinholds for dinner and games and had a great time as usual.  I brought my camera and specifically told myself to take a pictures and failed to do so again!  Seriously we just have too much fun!


We are so lucky to have you Paul!  It's been fun to watch Hayden and Paul become closer as she has gotten older.  She used to be a real mamma's girl, but as she gets older, she has finally figured out who the fun parent really is.  She got hurt awhile back and ran to her daddy first, which has never happened.  At first I was a little sad, but then realized how happy I was for her to have this special relationship with her daddy!

Tonsillectomy

Poor Hayden has sounded like Darth Vader ever since she has been about a year old.  So at 1 1/2 we had her adenoids removed, which helped, but her breathing was still very strained while sleeping.  Paul and I could hear her snoring anywhere in our house!  So we knew it was time to have the tonsils removed now that she was a bit older.  When the doctor saw them again now that she is 3 1/2 he was shocked at how big they were.  On a scale of 1-4 hers were a 4+.  He said it was essential to remove them because if she got sick and they became swollen it would completely obstruct her airway.  I'm thankful now that she hasn't had many problems getting sick!  When she had little colds, she would struggle to breath at night and had sleep apnea.

So the surgery was scheduled for June 10th 2013.  We talked a lot about what was going to happen and used the words, "the Dr. is going to make your tonsils smaller so you can breath better," instead of "he's going to cut them out!"  I told her she was going to get to watch as much TV and movies as she wanted and drink milk and eat popsicles all day.  She was way pumped!

The morning of the surgery we had to wake her up at 5:45 and she jumped out of bed and was so excited to get there.  She enjoyed laying in the bed during all the registration and even got a new present for cooperating with all the Dr's and nurses!  They gave her some calming medicine, which was hilarious to watch her once it kicked in.  She was out of it and could not even answer simple questions.  She'd just stare at us and giggle.



The surgery went well as expected and only lasted about 25 minutes.  The nurses led us to her room where she was starting to come out of the anesthesia.  She was crying a bit which the nurses say is normal because they are disoriented.  She slept about an hour longer and then we woke her up and started getting ready to go home.  She refused to drink apple juice or eat a popsicle which kind of delayed things, but she finally drank a little water so we could go.  She got to ride in a wagon to the car and thought this was awesome!


We had several friends come visit her on Monday and dropped off popsicles.  Thanks Erin Barnes and the Heinhold family!  And my new friend Teresa came by and gave Hayden a Barbie Mermaid.  She's carried it around all week!  The first few days were great as long as I kept giving her pain meds every 4 hours all day and night.  By the 3rd day she really stopped eating much of anything and it was a struggle to get her to drink anything.  Although she was happy which I am grateful for.  Today we're on day 8 and she seems to be over the worst part.  She hasn't needed medicine today and ate better than she has in awhile!

I'm glad she's been a happy girl, but I can't wait for our life to be back to normal again and for her to be eat normal food!

Random Things

Two things.  I have to blog this so I never forget:

1)  Hayden and I have been having lots of talks about listening to mom and dad and that we get to decide some things without negotiation being part of the deal.  I said, "just say, yes ma'm or yes sir and do it" and she responded:  "Yes your majesty!"

She proceeded to call me "your majesty" through most of the day.  Where does she come up with this stuff.  She is definitely going to give us a run for our money!

2)  Paul's brother Trent came into town for a BYU baseball recruiting trip and we got to spend some time with him.  Hayden was a little shy at first but loved playing with her uncle Trent! We may get to see him again at the end of the summer for another recruiting trip.


7 Years

Paul and I have now officially been married longer than the time we spent dating!  I can't believe I have known him for over 14 years now.  How we have grown and changed.  Paul was nice enough to take the day off of work, so we got to spend the day together and that night we went to a fancy restaurant in Atlanta called The Canoe.  It's set right by the Chattahoochee River and we got to eat on the patio and had a beautiful view of their garden and the river.

The food was fantastic and the company was excellent too!  I am ridiculous and get embarrassed to have people take pictures of us together so we didn't get one in front of the river, but it really was beautiful!




When we got home I found that Paul had set up a fort for a movie night.  It was really fun and something we have never done before!


The Oldham's Come to Visit

My sister Michelle has been so good about coming out to visit us here in Georgia each year.  I always look forward to our time together and it seems heart breaking when the visit comes to an end.  Family just shouldn't be split up, I wish life was more simple.  We talked a lot about how difficult it will become as our families continue to grow to get together each year, but we'll take advantage of the time we have while our families are so young and small.

Michelle and Owen were able to stay for 2 weeks and we had lots of fun at home and in Atlanta and Savannah, Georgia.  The first week I had a few doctor appointments and some other commitments so we did things close to home.  Like last year, Michelle helped me plant my garden.  I am ever so grateful that she has this skill and chooses to help me out!  I think I'm finally getting the hang of it.  Michelle also planted bean sprouts with Hayden and Hayden was so excited about this.  Notice Hayden is wearing her costume to plant flowers, she barely wore normal clothes the first few weeks after her recital.


Pretty early on, Owen picked his favorite spots in our house.  He loved to drive his trucks around our little table.




We also made a trip out to the zoo again like last year.  Hayden is getting pretty bold in her outfit choices! She had on blue and white striped shorts, lime green on her shirt a purple head band and pink shoes!  Not my first choice.




All the times we have been to the zoo and Hayden and I have never gone in the bird place.  All at once they would swoop over our heads, it was a little frightening, but Hayden thought it was hilarious!
  

Owen and Hayden had so much fun riding on the train and carousel.  Owen absolutely L.O.V.E.D. the train. I'm actually going to quote from Michelle's blog to describe it!

"We rode the carousel and the train at the zoo and despite Owen looking calm in this picture, he was crazy for the train. He loved it and kept signing and saying more when the ride was over.  Good thing we rode the train at the end of our zoo trip because I literally had to drag him kicking and screaming from the zoo the whole 15 min. walk back to the car.  (Its a wonder no one stopped me under the assumption that I was abducting this screaming toddler.)  The whole drive home Owen screamed choo-choo, choo-choo and zoo, zoo.  Apparently the train struck a chord with him!"

Throughout the time Michelle was here we'd accidentally say the word "zoo" or "train" and he'd start saying, "choo-choo" in a very sad voice, it was hilarious!





Later that week we took a 3 day trip to Savannah, GA.  Paul and I went for a few days for our 5 year anniversary, but it's one of those amazing places that you could go back over and over again.  Michelle's husband Jared referred to the trip as her "vacation from her vactation!"  He's a pretty funny guy.  The first full day we were there we headed to Forsyth Park and let the kids play on the playground.  Owen didn't want to play there so he found a good place to drive his cars.  We walked around the park, and had lunch and then headed to downtown Savannah.




















We didn't do much shopping this time with two little munchkins, but we walked around all the squares and got some Leopold's ice cream, yum! Here is Michelle and Owen and the Forrest Gump square.





Hayden got rose pedal ice cream which all the adults thought tasted horrible, but she ate every bite!


Owen loved the chocolate and made quite a mess on his little face!


We then headed back to the hotel so Owen could get a nap in and Hayden and Paul went for a swim at the hotel pool.  That night we headed to the historic district again, ate pizza and Vinnie Van-go-gos and went to River Street to check out the shops and the Savannah River.




 The next day we headed to Tybee Island and had a great day. The morning was a bit chilly and we had to leave around noon because it got really windy and cold.















That last picture sums it up, it was cold!  We headed out for lunch at the Crab Shack.  We heard it was a tourist trap, but one of my friends said it was really fun to go there so we decided to try it out.  It did not disappoint!  They had an alligator farm and a room with tons of birds in it and we ate lunch under a huge southern oak tree that the restaurant was build around.






Owen had a cat nap in the car and the sun came out after lunch so we headed back to the beach and we are so glad we did because the kids played so well together all afternoon and had a great time.  Hayden loved collecting sea shells and let Owen help her.







On the way home from Tybee we stopped at Wiley's Barbecue, quite possibly Paul's favorite restaurant of all time, and ate it at Forsyth Park.  We got the redneck nachos because our friends the Heinholds recommended it and they were amazing!  That's all we want next time!

The next morning we just played at the pool through the morning, went to Paul Dean's for lunch and headed home.





After recovering from our Savannah trip we headed out to pick some strawberries that grow at a local farm by our house.  Owen LOVES strawberries and he was really in heaven being surrounded by his favorite food.



I am obsessed with this picture of Owen.  Shouldn't he be the poster child for the strawberry farmers of America?  


They also had chickens so of course we had to stop and look!



Our last night together we decided to pack a picnic and head out to a little park by our house with a mile walking loop.  It was actually kind of cold believe it or not!






We had a great little walk until Owen went straight into a mud pile.  He was pretty upset that his shoe was so dirty and I don't blame him!

Paul and Owen really bonded on this trip and Paul had a lot of fun playing with a boy.  He even took a little nap on him the morning that they flew back to Colorado.



Our home seemed so empty and sad once they left.  We had such a great time with them and Michelle was a great help to me as she always is.  So grateful for my sister!